Open Question: Why did my boyfriend make an effort to have a good sex life w someone else but not w me?
My boyfriend and i broke up after a 4 1/2 yr relationship. Before we broke up, we had a very boring sex life. He had very little desire to have sex. I, on the other hand, wanted to improve our sex life. We had a great relationship other than that. I found out that he cheated on me w a one night stand. I was extremely confused since i couldn’t understand why he was never interested in having sex w me. About a month later we ended up breaking up. We were getting ready to move in together before this happened. He said he wanted to break up because he didn’t think i would be able to get over the issues he gave me about him cheating. He then started dating someone new about 2 weeks later. He told me that he realized that he just didn’t feel sexually attracted to me (i am an attractive woman). He said he felt i was like his best friend and we didn’t seem like a couple. He said he wanted something more in a relationship. We got back together 6 months later because there was a baby involved. He continued a relationship w this other girl until we got back together. He took viagra and cialis w this other girl the entire time up until we got back together. He then told me even though the pills made sex better, he refused to take them w me because he said they made him feel like crap the next day. Ok…this whole ordeal has caused me to be very insecure about our sex life. First of all, how come i’m not worth the same effort? Secondly, how can i feel secure about following a relationship that had the newness factor plus it was enhanced w pills! Am i wronf for having my feelings very hurt over this? Our relationship is great other than our sex life…
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